| Dad had a very unique
perspective on everything around him. He was a highly intelligent man
but it was not a conventional intelligence. In many respects, he often
felt alone because very few people could understand and appreciate his
unorthodox logic that was born out of a very creative mind.
On a day to day level this intelligence expressed
itself in an aspect of his character that almost everyone will be able
to identify and that was his extraordinary sense of humour. My father
could see the funny side of almost any situation no matter how bleak.
Humour enabled him to survive the hardest times in his life. He was even
able to joke about his situation in his hospital bed despite knowing he
was close to death. Dad never thought twice about poking fun at himself.
This humour may have been a product of having lived through a world war
and time spent in the army. He could therefore appreciate the surreal
comedy of the Goons, Monty Python and Benny Hill. He especially loved
the works of Spike Milligan. Spike Milligan wanted the following epitaph
on his gravestone "I told you I was ill". This is just the kind of thing
you could imagine Dad requesting.
He had a natural head for business which when combined
with his creative intelligence, confidence and hard work proved to be
a winning formula. He believed also that much of his success was down
to conducting business with integrity and that his reputation was very
important.
For Dad, money didn't appear to be the ultimate
goal in business. He enjoyed being an entrepeneur and devising a new scheme.
In many ways he reminded me of Del Trotter from 'Only Fools and Horses',
who despite having enough wealth, couldn't just sit back and retire. He
would get restless and would be thinking of some new scheme to get involved
in.
He saw prosperity in his life as prosperity for
his family and friends. If he had a project, he wouldn't keep it to himself
he would want everyone else to come on board and share in the success.
You couldn't help but be impressed by his boundless optimism and enthusiasm.
To quote Del again "By next week Rodney, we'll be millionaires!". He said
to me once "Money doesn't neccessarily by you love or happiness. What
it does give you though is freedom".
During the last 10 years or so of his life, money
became less important as he pursued his medical research. Originally it
was intended to support his legal case however over time this slipped
into the background and the research became the end goal. I was immensely
impressed with his ability, especially at his age, to educate himself
in the intricacies of human metabolism as well as mastering using a computer
and the Internet. Armed with this knowledge and the abstract way he viewed
problems he stripped away the detail to combine the important factors
into a theory. Unfortunately, being dsyslexic and without a formal scientific
background he was more often than not dismissed by the academics because
he found it difficult to communicate the concept of his theories. Moreover,
Dad was challenging the very dogma of the scientific community as well
as political agendas. Only time will tell whether he was right. Whatever
the outcome, he encouraged a debate in science and therefore provided
a valuable contribution. Thousands of people, amongst them many academics
and science students, visited his website over the last 8 years and some
will have in some way been influenced by his writings. Around 2 years
ago he told me that he believed that his research would help others in
the future. He wasn't interested in being remembered as a successful entrepeneur.
He wanted to depart this life knowing that he had in some way made a contribution
to the benefit of humankind.
Those who knew Dad well, will know that he was
a man of depth, emotion, passion, and spirituality. These characteristics
were all very closely intertwined. Much of this emotion and passion was
self-evident in his musical
expression. Spiritually, he believed that the universe has a structure,
order and purpose. He looked in symbolism in everything around him. He
could turn negative events into positive ones by relating them to some
higher purpose. He often claimed his medical research was guided by some
divine intervention. He had no particular religious affiliation yet embraced
positive elements from all religions. Anyone who visited his home would
see lucky objects from Buddhism, Judaism, Christanity and ancient Egypt.
This belief in a higher purpose or divine fate helped him though the hardships
of life and an unflinching belief in a better tommorow.
We always were aware that he loved us unconditionally.
He was never reserved about showing his affection and love with a kiss
and a hug.
During the 70s and early 80s he was very preoccupied
with the stress and pressure of running a huge business and dealing with
his illness. We understand why he wasn't around much then and we know
that he always loved us during this time. In the last 15 or so years of
his life he was able to involve himself in the lives of his children and
grandchildren. I hope that from somewhere above on high he will be able
to see the fruits of his love grow and develop in the people whose lives
he touched.
We would like to thank Rema for being a part of
his life in the last 2 years. You brought immense happiness to my father
and considerable support and comfort through his illness.
We'll miss you so much Dad. We hope you passed
on knowing how much we loved you and were so very proud of you.

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